A Female´s Guide to Making Up with Her Guy
How do you go about convincing your guy that you had something really special between you and that you think you should get back together?
The first step is to accept that, whatever the cause of your breakup, you were probably both at fault one way or another. If you strayed and played away from home, maybe you looked elsewhere because he wasn’t providing you with what you needed.
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The same thing applies if he was the one who cheated – you clearly were not giving him what he was looking for either. Okay, morally there really should be no cheating going on at all but if there was, it’s fair to say the blame lies with both of you.
Forgiving and forgetting is the key and to do this all the anger you feel in relation to what happened has to be eliminated and the subject permanently closed. Without going through this process you are never going to get your guy back, not for good anyway.
If you hold yourself responsible for the break up, then say you are sorry and be serious about it. There is no point in apologizing only to commit the same mistake again a week later. You have to mean what you are saying and be prepared to give 100% to get your guy back and make the relationship work this time.
After you have hurt him like you did he is hardly likely to come running back to you with his arms wide open so you may have to play the chasing game for a while and show him how interested you are. He has his male pride remember! However, he may need some space so don’t bombard him with calls and texts. Let your female ego take a back seat whilst you put your heart on the line for him.
There are occasions when settling for less than you wish for may be necessary. For example, you want him as your boyfriend again, but he would only like to be friends at this stage. Trust takes time to rebuild and you have to give him that so accept what he is offering in order to work on the relationship and get it back on track.
It may be the case that your guy has simply had enough and definitely does not want to reconcile with you. If this is so, you have to acknowledge things for what they are and move on.
Maybe forgiveness for what you have done in the past is just not possible on his part and although you are likely to be feeling completely broken at this stage, in the long run he could actually be doing you a favor. Get out there and look for a new guy. There is someone for everyone and the man of your dreams is probably waiting for you just around the corner.
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